If you encounter a guy
that doesn't want to wear a condom and who throws a fit at the suggestion
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CONDOM
CAVEATS
If you encounter a guy
that doesn't want to wear a condom and who throws a fit at the suggestion,
you should give serious thought to his potential in your future, because
he's surely not too bright. Some guys still think it's more macho to go
without, and make declarations such as "It's like taking a shower with
a raincoat on". If you do want to sleep with this macho man, consider
speaking his language and say something like "It's like going to battle
without your helmet on." Don't waver on the point if you feel in any
way uncomfortable, because it truly can be a matter of life or death.
If and when the time
comes for you to purchase condoms, expect to encounter shelves full of many
different condom brand names and varieties. Trojan is probably the most
trusted brand name in America, along with Lifestyles and ProTex. However, it
can be fun to buy 'tough' condoms with names like Rough Rider, because they
make for an easy joke. The bottom line is that any undamaged latex condom
that you buy will do the job. Do not buy lambskin condoms because they do
not protect against disease.
One condom option is
thickness. Most men prefer thin or ultra- thin condoms so they can feel
maximum sensations. However, some men prefer thicker condoms because they
want to control those sensations, and a thicker condom helps to prevent them
from becoming overly stimulated and coming too quickly.
Another condom choice
is whether or not to get lubricants or spermicidal. This should be decided
by your preferences. However, be cautioned to never add Vaseline as a
lubricant to a condom because it will break down the latex! And, be
forewarned that some spermicidal can cause irritation, too.
In major cities around
the world, condom shops have opened selling unbelievable condom options.
Condoms are now available in about just about any imaginable theme or color.
One of the more unusual options out there includes flavored condoms for safe
oral sex. If you are going for this, know that no matter what flavor, it's
still rubber and isn't going to taste very good. If you are going to make
flavored condoms part of your regular repertoire, try a brand called Kiss of
Mint, which doubles as a light breath freshener.
You
know with whom you need to wear a condom. The trickier part can be figuring
out who pulls out the condom, from where, and when. The simple rule of thumb
is that whoever owns the pad should have condoms available. If you are your
place, you will be able to reach into your bedside table tools. Hopefully,
he should be equally prepared.
However,
as men are not always the most foresighted of creatures, this is another
time when you should take control into your own hands and have a back up
plan.
You may have wondered,
"Does it give the wrong impression to carry my own condoms?" The
answer is no, you are protecting yourself. Likewise, you should not think
poorly of a man for carrying condoms. He is not being cocky, only prepared.
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