If he is an especially
hot prospect, consider buying him a drink (this can be alcohol, coffee, or
whatever is appropriate.)
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continuing:
Ready,
Scope, Aim ... Fire!
If he is an especially
hot prospect, consider buying him a drink (this can be alcohol, coffee, or
whatever is appropriate.) To do this, you can enlist the help of a waiter or
waitress (but be sure the drink gets to the right person!) Or, you can boldly
present the drink to him yourself with a casual introduction such as
"Here, I thought you might like this." If you choose to deliver the
drink in person, be prepared for him to be caught off- guard, and perhaps even
stunned.
Therefore, it is
especially important for you to have some conversation topics ready and some
opening/leading lines on the tip of your tongue. (See next section for line
suggestions.)
Leading
Lines
Now that you have
completed phase two and are in direct contact with your man prospect, it is
important to stay alert and to investigate. He is actually there in front of
you! So, while you are engaging him in some small talk, examine how
you are feeling. Get past your nervous, racing heart and determine your
attraction for this man. Do you want to pursue this prospect any further?
Perhaps your answer is
no, in which case, find a polite way to back away and return to scoping.
Maybe you are unsure, and decide to take it slowly. However, if you
determine, "Heck yes! I want this man in my bed tonight!" then let
him know it. Remember that you are determining your destiny, and can be in
control of this situation. All it will take is a semi-subtle cue for the man
to understand what you want - but why not make your cue/ line memorable and
clever? Consider specializing your 'leading line' to fit what you already
know about your prospect.
While
the variations are endless, here are a few samples:
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To
the surfer dude who believes in the never-ending summer: "Can I see
your tan line?"
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To
the investment banker: " You are really cut-up! How often do
you work out? Can I touch your muscle?" (This also works for the
Harley Davidson types!)
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To
the photographer: "Do you want to see all of me in the best
light?"
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To
the still wanna-be hippie professor: "You really have a peace sign
tattooed on your backside?"
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To
the intellectual: "Let's head back to my place, have some coffee and
discuss (your favorite classic book.)"
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To
the hip hopster, or hip hopster wanna-be: "You want to go back to ma
pad for some jiggly wiggly?"
The
point being, that if you are interested, let him know. You shouldn't need a
diagram to get the point across. If he is also interested, he'll catch
your drift.
Book the Hook - Up
You've
scoped, you've made contact with an attractive man, and charmed, or at least
amused him, with some clever lines and conversation. So now, complete your
mission and book your hook-up.
Your
new sexual persona dictates that you make decisions and determine what moves
to make. You are willing to take some risks to find out what you want
and like. However, this does not mean that you have lost your feminine
prerogative to change your mind! If you are right outside your door, or even
in your bedroom, and you decide he is not what you want, find a way to
politely say goodnight, and then move on without looking back (Although, it
is strongly recommended that you do this before you are in the bedroom.)
This is a free
tantalizing teaser,
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