Your objective when scoping is simple - to
locate the perfect man-prospect ...
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continuing:
Tantalize with Television
If you plan on using
videos, seriously consider adding a TV/VCR combo (with remote, of course) to
your bedside basics equipage. If you are nervous about how to introduce the
video, set your mind at ease because there are many 'natural' possibilities!
If you are trying to casually start things with a guy you have known for a
long time, invite him over for some drinks and a video. Then arrange
your videos in ascending order of sexiness. When he arrives and asks what
videos you have, rattle off the list and watch his surprise (And see which
video he chooses!) If you are dealing with a long-term boyfriend or husband,
simply slip the video in the VCR and invite him to watch a movie with you in
bed. If you are after seducing a new man, invite him into your apartment and
hand him the remote (or better yet, have the movie playing when he walks
in.)
Scoping the Scene
Don't underestimate the
importance of the 'scope'. Scoping keeps you attuned to what and who is
around you, alerts you to future possibilities, and signals to others that
you are available and interested. Your objective when scoping is simple - to
locate the perfect man- prospect. Scoping is the ongoing process that starts
with a general appraisal of your surroundings when you enter a new place. It
continues after a pause when you have determined where the most action and
fun is. You then move in the direction of the people you want to be near.
Once you are in a
prime position in the room (where you can see and be seen,) you can continue
to scope for interesting people and prospects. The entire process is subtle,
as your glances are very short and not obvious. Scoping should not make
anyone feel uncomfortable or 'hunted'. Scoping can, and should, occur
anywhere and everywhere - at grocery stores, church meetings, rock concerts,
bars, on the street, and everywhere in between.
Ready,
Scope, Aim ... Fire!
If you have
successfully completed your scoping objective and have located an attractive
man that you want to get to know better, it is time to move into phase two.
In phase two, your objective is to make initial contact with your handsome
man prospect. To do this, catch his eye, look directly at him for a few
seconds, smile slightly, and then look away. Repeat this process the next
time you glance in his direction and find him looking at you. This
back-and-forth fleeting eye contact can potentially continue for
embarrassingly long periods of time.
If he doesn't make the
first move, or if you like to, facilitate the action. Consider finding a
reason to walk by him or to stand close to him (such as going to the bar to
get a drink.)
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