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BEDROOM
- PREPARING
THE LOVE NEST
You
look and feel spectacular, so the next step is to prepare a riveting meeting
space. You may think that he doesn't care about setting as long as he's
getting you, but that's not completely true (Do you remember Ross from
FRIENDS with the gorgeous woman in her rat-infested apartment?) The magic,
excitement and thrill will start to seep away as soon as something becomes
uncomfortable or falls apart.
So, again, you must take control. Design
a space that will be yours (and his if you wish) to command and shine in. It
is important that in your preparation, you have considered the importance of
some of the 'tools of the trade.' With these tools, the tricks to passion
will be at your fingertips, and it will appear that you exude this knowledge
and confidence effortlessly.
Bed
Basics
The most important tool in your
repertoire is your bed. You should consider the bed's size, height, style
and position in the room.
If you can afford it and have room for
it, buy at least a queen-size mattress. Ideally, the bed frame should have
no headboard or footboard to bang against. Height is also important as this
can partially determine the ease of some of the intercourse options that may
later be open to you. A high bed is not only dramatic, but also allows for a
variety of exciting positions. Avoid futons and any mattress-on-the-floor
options, as they can be torture on the knees. While some people love the
idea of rocking the waves on a waterbed, be aware that waterbeds have rigid
frames that can cause bruising and skin irritations.
Carefully
consider your bed's position. If you've got the space, put the bed on a low
platform in the center of your room. The bed will be elevated to a great
height and accessible from any angle. If space dictates that you must have one
side against a wall, make it your head-side! Nobody wants to be
restrained from letting loose because they are afraid of hitting their funny -
bone on the plaster wall.
Bedside Basics
If
you plan to move your relationship past the kissing stage and into the
bedroom, you should consider stocking your bedside table with a few 'basics'
to simplify and intensify the passionate experience. Most of these items
should be kept discreetly inside a drawer or flip-top open box and
guilefully taken out if the appropriate time arises. The first critical
bedside basic is, of course, are condoms. Next in line are lubricants. It is
fine and even recommended to keep a pump bottle of lotion on top of the
table but any specific lubricants such as KY jelly should be kept out of
immediate sight. Also suggested for inclusion is a terry cloth washcloth
(not tissues) for cleaning up the skin after any sticky act. After you read
the following section, you may also decide to add a few adult toys to your
bedside collection!
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