Vitamins
such as vitamin E can be bought in capsule. Those with natural wheat germ or
wheat germ oil are major sperm “creamers” for a man. Experiment. Put
your man on a diet where he has wheat germ sprinkled on his morning cereal
for a week, and at night on his pudding, with honey and arrange to have sex
at the end of the week, and make him cum in your mouth. You will notice that
not only will there be more sperm, but it will be richer, creamier and tastes
very much better. Add capsules of Primrose oil and zinc tablets to that
mixture and his vitality will go up also, and he will find he has much more
sexual energy than usual. If you are both pushing your late thirties, then
you are advised to take ante oxidants with this mix, as this will increase
the potency of any energy foods by reducing the amount being blocked by poor
digestion. Ante oxidants are also anti carcinogenic and will help prevent
cancer. Worth remembering.
You
have often heard it said and it stands repeating. In the search for love and
the right relationship, there is no better guide than your own heart. Follow
your heart Follow your bliss. Not as easy as it sounds however. You have to
be out on your own and free. Its no good seeing your perfect man if you are
out with another man. Try breaking away from the man you are with to go with
the one you have just made eye contact with who is, you feel, possibly the
right one. Very hard! But what if that happens. What do you do? You are out
with your boy friend and you see the man of your dreams, and he is out withy
his girl friend. You see each other, say at a disco, or nightclub, or in a
restaurant, or on the subway, or in a train, or in a passing cars, or at a
plane. Your eyes meet, lock and you both know. What do you do?
You
can slip each other your email address quickly in which case you can make
contact with each other secretly at a alter date. You can slip each other
your mobile phone numbers. Hard to do if your mate is standing next to you.
You can be brave and go straight up to them if circumstances permit and
arrange to meet somewhere at a later date.
Funny
how if you see someone that you really feel is right for you and you don’t
do anything about it, you always feel bad about it. It takes courage and
presence of mind and enormous clarity.
Imagine saying to the
person you are with: “Look, I am very sorry, and I do not mean to, or want
to hurt you, but I must go and speak to that person there right now. Please
excuse me. I will come right back.” It sounds easy to do, and the words
seem very clear and right, but you just try having the ...
... presence of mind to do that at the
time. If you do manage it, then you are both brave and clear headed. If you
don’t make that move and he may not either, then you are two ships passing
in the night. Maybe you can return to that venue at some later time alone
and he will do the same and chance that you will see each other again.
Then its plain
sailing.
You smile. He smiles
and you say: “I was hoping you were going to be here and here you are. I
am glad you came tonight as I wanted to speak to you.” If he is on your
wavelength, he will say something like: “Yes, me too. I came in the hope
you would be here. Lets dance and then go and talk somewhere.” You’re in
bed. Simple. Takes a little faith and courage. But for heaven’s sake
follow your bliss. Practice following your bliss. Get used to the idea that
that is what it ultimately comes down to. That is where your happiness
really lies. Everything else is a variation on the theme.