Certainly
it makes for a very mature approach to sexuality and will indeed produce a
great deal of sensual pleasure for all concerned. It will take his
understanding of sexuality and himself to new-found heights. Women have a
great deal of sexual gravity and not all men will have the necessary
confidence and sexual prowess to be able to hand two women at the same time.
Some will, and may be coming more from macho pride. But that feeling will
pass with maturity. It has nothing to do with “fucking two birds” at the
same time. It has to do with the art of love making, and practicing the
reemerging sensual arts.
It
maybe down to us women really to get this started properly. Men who find
themselves in bed with two women are far less likely to feel that they are
engaged in a fine art of love making, and much more inclined to think they
are involved in a multiple shagging, one then the other experience.
It
may in that case be a good idea to discuss it before hand, if this can be
done in a mature way and without deadening the excitement of lovemaking. A
little uncertainty makes for greater excitement. But a little preparation
might go along way to “tuning him in” to what you have planned. He will
need to be sexually potent and not tired, as this takes some energy and
self-control on his part. Even go so far as to draw little stick diagrams
for him, if you don’t have a handy tantric manual and show him the
posture.
He
may be a tantric expert in which case you are in luck. Don’t count on it.
Call the posture the Gobbling Fishes so that you all know what you are
talking about if there is a next time, and there should be.
Remember,
that when it comes to the ancient arts of love making, we are all beginners.
But as long as there is willingness to experiment, and a fair attitude
towards each other’s process of sexuality, then how can you lose? You
cannot.
Dealing
with the emotions is another matter. In the ancient arts of Tantra, two
women and one man can lead to a quarrel between the two women if it becomes
evident that the man is taking more to one and not the other. This is the
danger of repeating the experiment with the same “team”. That preference
is going to be natural. The man will most likely start to gravitate towards
one woman and slightly less one. He will tend to show that preference by the
he chooses to cum inside. He may be a real stud and shoot his load into both
of you.
The ideal number of women
to share one man in a lovemaking act is, shockingly enough four women, and
not two. Certainly the gobbling fishes can only be performed with one man
and two women. But there may be four women present. That poor man will have
to have a lot of sexual stamina.
