It’s called The
Gobbling Fishes. Some women in the west may feel uncomfortable with the idea
of going with another woman in bed with one man. It will turn him on. Men
are forever fascinated with the idea of having sex with more than one woman. Women
find each other much more erotic and sensual than men find each other. A man
loves to watch two women playing with each other. It’s a real turn on for
him, a real treat. It can also put us women in touch with the more sensual
side of our nature. Its not strictly speaking a lesbian encounter when
there is a man present in bed, and involved in the sexual act, but it is
nevertheless a lesbian type of experience. This is less trouble some to
women that it is to men. Men are either that way inclined or they are dead
against sexual involvement with their own sex. They are strictly straight.
Strictly heterosexual.
A good red-blooded
male attitude, too, and not to be discouraged. Occasionally you come across
a bi sexual male, but mostly men who love to go with two women at the same
time are fairly confident about their sexuality and fairly confident about
their ability to satisfy. It can be quite nerve wracking if you have never
done it before. So much depends on your choice of partner and even if you
manage to get the right two partners, another woman and the right lucky man,
there is the issue of dealing with the attendant guilt. You have to make
certain that you go into a three some with a clear decision that you are not
going to feel guilty about it afterwards. That guilt would take the shine
right off a potentially very interesting experiment in your own sensuality.
It should be encouraged.
The
man will probably think that a sexual encounter with two women “at the
same time” means, first he goes with one of the women, and then with the
other, alternating between the two of you. But it need not be like that. One
woman can go down on his, giving him a good blow job, a fellatio ...
... gratification if you want the
posh expression, and the other gives him the full sensual lip exploration,
mouth kissing, body fondling. Both of you can go down on his, taking it in
turns to take the phallus in your mouth. That can be very exciting for all
involved. One can be licking on his balls, the other giving him the sucking
off. Again alternating. Then, if you are firmly in the driving seat and in
synch with your fellow girl playmate, you can take in turns to “ride”
the Bronco. Sliding on top of his cock for a bounce, and then controlling
yourself and giving your friend a chance. While she is on him, the other can
be shagging him and vice versa. But whatever you do, stay involved. Don’t
roll over and let her have it off with him. Waiting your turn. Stay
sensually involved, no matter who is getting the ride. Swap over regularly.
He will think he has died and gone to heaven. It’s a good sign, it means
you are doing something right. But there is way you can both be directly and
intimately involved, and it comes from Tantric Yoga. It is called the
Gobbling Fishes, a direct reference to the appearance of your pussy.
The
positioning is as follows. If he does not instigate this himself, and he may
not know, or have even heard of it, then her is your big chance to teach
himself about love making. Something for him to tell all his friends about.
The larger one of you girls, if there is a noticeably larger one lies on her
back on the bed and spreads and arches her legs nice and comfortably. The
second girl, the lighter one then straddles her. Now, here’s the tricky
part. The idea is you rub your pudenda bones together so that your vaginas
are making direct contact with each other. The girl underneath may find it
more comfortable if she raises her hips up. Put a pillow under your buttocks
to support that extra bit of lift you need. Maybe even two pillows, whatever
you need to get that lift, so that your pelvis can rest easily and without
strain.