That goes for dress codes and hairdos and everything else, but never
quite as much as a smelly pussy! Make sure that when you go to bed with him
for the first time that your pussy smells fragrant and flower like. Nothing
even vaguely smelly can be allowed. He may go down on you and if your pussy
smells, he will be up like a shot and even go off the idea of sticking his
cock in you. The olfactory sense, the sense of smell, is one of the basic
instinctual magnets that pulls or repels men and women to and from each
other. He may think you are gorgeous. He may think you dress beautifully. He
may think you are smart, clever, and all the rest, but if he goes down on
you the first time and your pussy smells bad to him he won't go down on you
again and that id final.
You
will have to apologize for a smelly pussy and coax him into trying again at
a later date and you know how embarrassing that is. Same with a smelly cock,
but a cock is easier to keep clean than a pussy.
PUSSY
HYGEINE
Obviously
there are all sorts of hygienic tools on the market these days. Vaginal
wipes, scents that don't sting and fresh colognes. But nothing makes your
pussy smell sweet quite like a good shower before you have sex, and if you
have recurring bacteriological problems than go and see your Gynecologist
for god's sake and get it sorted out. He will give you any number of things
from antibiotics to anti- bacteriological soap. Its bacteria build up that
causes bad pussy breath and it’s a real turn off for any man. Any man that
is turned on by bad pussy smell you shouldn't be dating because he is
probably weird in other ways than that, too.
It
will do wonders for your sexual confidence in bed if you know your pussy is
wet for him to lick out. If it isn't he probably won't give you a second
chance. The nose has a very long memory as we ladies all know. We are, after
all the world's experts on scents. We spend enough of our hard earned cash
on every kind of scent and cologne. Shame to spoil it all by spreading your
legs for him and giving him a whiff of a badly smelling pussy. Enough said.
You can easily check if your pussy smells. Just put your finger down there
and smell it. If you don't like the smell, he definitely won't.
CUNNILINGUS
GETTING LICKED OUT..
There
are few men who don’t like going down on a woman’s vagina and giving us
a good licking. And there are even fewer women who don't like being licked
out. It's one of the most fantastic turn ons in the universe and it can come
at any time in the love making process.
It
can and usually does come at the beginning. You may have gone down on his
first and given him a good blowjob and then it is usually good manners and
courtesy to give you the same treatment and he will have different styles
depending on his personality. Some men are very confident at this. How can
you tell if he is confident? He will go down on you and brace your legs in
his arms and elbows so that you can't close your legs and squirm away when
you start to get really excited, as we sometimes want to do. That kind of
man has had experience of us trying to breach our own orgasm because, as he
knows, because of its intensity. Getting your clitoris firmly licked by a
man's tongue and the inner labia of the vagina excited by his tongue and
lips is heaven on earth, and a man who can make us cum that way is really a
friend for life no matter what he does.
We
are suckers, if you will forgive the pun, for a damn good licking out and we
love it even more than a good fucking sometimes. It is all our pleasure. He
loves it because he has our clitoris all to himself and we are at his
absolute mercy, which is where he wants us, and let's face it, it’s where
we want to be. Spread-eagles with legs apart, and body shaped like a star
and a man between our legs. He can lap away and find out how to do it. He
won't need too much coaxing and teaching, believe me, and if you try and
tell him to do it there and there and here and all the rest, well, as I said
before, don't, unless you want him to stop more quickly.
Ideally we women want to
be taken all the way to our first orgasm before penetration by a lick out.
That is ideal If he can come up trumps on that one, then we are going to be
nine times more responsive to him when he rears up and stuffs his cock inside
and pumps away. If he has got us on the crest of a wave by lapping away at the
clitoris then if we are lucky we get the second wave of orgasm when he enters
the vagina...and that is successful love making.
