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Women
are more sensitive than men!
You
may have noticed this about yourself. Women are much more sensitive to
vibration. A woman can be turned on more by a vibration she is getting from
a man than his physical appearance. We like a well-groomed man. We like a
handsome man. We like a well turned out, well dressed, well-spoken, clever
man. What woman doesn’t. We also like Joe Rough too. Jeans and cowboy hat.
We like Mr. Adventurer, the James Bond types. We like the homely bared chap
that isn’t going to leave us for another woman. But vibration we feel. One
woman friend of mine went to see her lover at work one day and the man
sitting next her lover across the room had a vibration so strong and so
magnetic for her that she couldn’t help noticing.
She
kept looking over at him. He hadn’t noticed her. He was busy vibrating at
his own frequency, but that frequency was her wavelength all right. She
could not help herself, she gravitated towards him and even touched his
elbow to make her presence known to him. He saw her and their eyes locked
for a fleeting second. In that second they both knew that if they could
arrange to meet somewhere alone, that was going to end up in the bedroom,
and fast. Maybe it wouldn’t last, but there were sparks all over the
place. She was hot for him and once he became Aware of her he fancied her
too. This is not to say that a woman fancies a man with her eyes and he is
going to fancy her right back.
FEAR OF REJECTION
This
is a big one for both men and women. Women fear it more, but I will tell you
a secret: men fear it just as much. Fear of rejection can keep you alone
indefinitely.
Another
close friend of mine had that problem. She was duly over this man for years
and she was scheming all sorts of ways to get him alone in her house. He was
dashing, good looking, a heartthrob. If he were a Hollywood film star he
would have been a sex icon. But she couldn’t see that. She just saw it as
her own wish. She was to him however ugly and fat and revolting. That is an
extreme example. But it’s a point worth making, in case you think that
liking or being able to tune into a man’s vibration is all you need to
conclude that he is going to fancy you too. Not necessarily.
That
is the risk factor, the factor of rejection. No one can take rejection
really. No one takes rejection well, and because of that both sexes are
reluctant to chance their arm on sexual and emotional encounters that may
mean rejection. It can and is always quite hurtful and painful. That is one
reason why men sometimes go with whores for sexual release. They can pay for
sexual release without fear of rejection. The same goes for women and male
prostitutes. It’s a way around rejection.
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