This,
believe it or not, works at the energy level. A woman can find love and
happiness in an older man. The energy between them in this combination
doesn’t harm her or him. Part of the reason why it does not ultimately
work the other way round is that women go through a menopause where her
hormones change in a very radical way. She can no longer bear children and
her whole vibration level starts to change. A man can father children
potentially, all his life. A man of 70 or 80 or even older can impregnate
any woman of child bearing age, and that age starts when she is pubescent,
and has her first period, as early as 12 or 13 in many cases. Most girls
start menstruating by the time they are 14 years old, and any man can make
her pregnant at practically any age.
This
fertility combination is one reason why a man can have a relationship with a
younger woman and it can work very successfully. We women tend to put out
the propaganda in our own magazines, which we tend to edit and staff with
members of our own sex, so naturally very biased and naturally unbalanced,
that older men should not be fucking women half their age. But from an
energy point of view there is no harm in it. A forty-year-old man can and
does fuck women of twenty. A fifty-year-old man can and does fuck women in
their early twenties. Many women who go with older men tend to be attracted
to the father principle, the sugar daddy idea, the lure of protection,
financial security, being looked after.
That
is natural because a woman is genetically wired to nurture and a man’s
attraction to her may be that he can protect and look after her. So there
are social as well as genetic and psychological factors in favor of that
dynamic. Whether we women as a gender want to approve of this, it happens,
and will continue to happen whether we like it or not. Nature is a stronger
force than the prevailing social conditioning, or current fashion in ideas
on the subject. It is going to help us women lot to understand these natural
forces and work with them rather than try to fight them or oppose them.
Ultimately we cannot win against nature herself because wherever we do, the
price is usually much higher than anyone can pay. That is something every
woman who gets serious about a man should really keep in mind. Its never
simple, but that is a very safe assumption to make. It stands to reason. A
man’s mother is the strongest force in his life on the female front. If
it’s a good solid liberating, understanding, compassionate relationship,
he is going to be attracted to women who are like that. Few men, as few
women, are really completely well adjusted. That is why there are so many
psychiatrists, and so many relationship workshops.
