Think about it. A man will do almost anything to get you into bed if
he knows that he has a better than even chance of achieving it. He will
work, he will save, he will reschedule all his agendas, and he will fly
across the world. He will re organize his life to get you into his bed, or
yours. Just don't make it too difficult for him and try to increase your
attraction ratio.
THE OLFACTORY
ALLURE
The
primeval instinct of the mating instinct is in the scent of a woman.
Remember that Al Pacino film? The scent is everything. Smell good and he
will fuck you senseless and he won't quite know why.
The
perfume companies are always looking for the ultimate scent that will
absolutely attract any man, or any woman and make the scoring a sure thing.
But the real answer is that everyone has a different type of body odor that
is natural and alluring. Some men are naturally musky and women love the
musky man. Some women are naturally flowery and some men like that. Its
different scents. But maybe some smart one will get it down to
classifications of about four for a man and four for a woman and then
variations on the theme between the four types of scent. But it’s a trial
and error thing. But in the sexual game, scent is the most primeval turn on
there is. Higher up, its the look in the eyes of love. The eyes are
important for that special contact. The shape of the body comes next.
That
is why meeting on the telephone and falling in love on the telephone
doesn’t work. I have had so many cases of women who sound lovely on the
telephone, who have nice coy voices and make all the right responses and men
too. But then comes the big crunch. When do we meet? Tomorrow. Then you
meet. You both think the other one is ugly. But it only takes one to think
the other is that way and that is it. It is over. I know of two clear
examples worth recounting.
Meeting
on The telephone, OK ..BUT…A BIG BUT….
Golden
rule there is meet the next day or as soon as possible. Don’t fall in love
with the voice, the personality. The bottom line is meeting. Then you know.
For sure. One old lady sounded like a young lady on the phone. He sounded
like a young man.
They
lied to each other for weeks and weeks, and then they had to meet. They had
worked each other up so much that they had to meet. The meeting was short
and not very sweet. He was a smelly muggy man and she was fat, ugly and old.
Disaster. They didn’t like each other in the flesh. They would have been
happier just being telephone friends.
The
second example was a young man in his mid twenties. Meeting on the
telephone is big in North America. He was not very experienced. He talked
all night to this world-class telephone “hooker”. She had been at that
game for years and so she knew how to touch all the bases. This was my son.
He was on the phone to her until six O’clock in the morning. He had been
talking to her for almost nine hours.
