He will love you for rubbing
it all over your body. He will love you for accepting his orgasm. It’s your
way of accepting his ecstasy as part of your own. Its a sure fire turn on. He
will probably want to buy you things afterwards and take you out to dinner and
give you plenty of attention, for the simple reason that you gave it to him at
that crucial moment. But if your energy doesn't work together you may find it
hard at first, but give it time.
It
is simple. NO man would refuse if you told him straight: Take me home and
fuck me. You won't need to say it twice. Most women are wired to play all
sorts of games first. To play cat and mouse.
To
decide whether they want to or not, and not on the first date. This is a
matter of temperament. He may think, you thin, that you agree a slut if you
say it straight like that. He may and he may not. He may be grateful that he
doesn't have to go all round the houses to get you where he wants you, under
him, naked and with your legs wide apart and your mouth open. He may think
you are a slut and he may be an uptight git, too. You can work this out and
judge the right approach. But if you want to be sure of getting him in bed,
and take it out of the maybe and Maybe Not arena, then you can give him the
look with your eyes and if he doesn't quite have the bottle to tell you he
wants you, then you can nestle up to him and kiss him on the neck and simply
whisper the words, "I want you, tonight"...that is the same thing.
He won't need a second reminder. You just decide where and go.
The
number of missed opportunities because women feel that they have to play the
stupid game of making him guess if he is taking a risk. This can be fun for
the Romeo type of man who wants to challenge himself and see if he can score
with you. But most men would be afraid of getting rejected at the crucial
hurdle and resign themselves to wanking about it later on in the solitary
lonely bed. It is a shame, when you could be shagging all night with him
instead. Sure, you might go off and score somewhere else if the night is
young and so might he, but why chance it? If you fancy him, and he fancies
you, and you want to get between the sheets tonight, then a man will not
refuse if he knows he is home and dry. He is not going to turn down a
definite shag with you. I told the man I had fancied for years, when he flew
over from England to the States to see me, on the phone straight out, so he
would think about it all the way. I just said it to him on the phone, to
take all the guesswork out of it for both of us. I simply said, "When
you get here I want to sleep with you". He just said, "I am on my
way" He came over and I met him at the air port and we went home and
went straight to bed, then we caught up on each other's news and it all
worked out. He would not have said it to me. So I said it to him. He bought
me some cologne on the plane.
