That is a downer, an ego drop, a smack on his fragile machismo, which if he is
in his self esteem properly ...
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Don't provoke his machismo, ego, self
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He will think you are really enjoying it and that will make him feel
good. If you are not enjoying yourself but making him think you are then you
are a fool, and you are cheating both of you. Don’t order him about to do
this and that because that will make him think he can’t arouse you.
That is a downer, an ego drop, a smack on his fragile machismo, which if he is
in his self esteem properly he won’t have much of (don’t expect any man
not to have machismo by the way. If you come across a healthy, fit, specimen
with no machismo he is probably a god looking for a goddess…could that be
you?) He might also think you are a control freak and we can’t have that
either. No man wants to be controlled unless he is a weirdo. Yes, there are
plenty of those weirdos out there, too. No woman really likes to be
controlled. “Loved” yes, but not controlled.
Controlling others as a
way of getting off is a sure sign of a distinct lack of self worth. It means
in psychological parlance that you don’t think a lot of yourself and even
less of him. That is a relationship that will hit the wall sometime. And
definitely a no-no as a place to start. So nix on the control, freak tactics.
It’s a false start. Instead: Let him explore, let him find you there, he
will if he is made welcome to. That part is up to you. He is not going down on
you for any other reason than to turn you on. It turns him on too. You can be
sure of that. And if you are a tasty dish down there he will want to stay for
the second and the third orgasm and believe me, if he stays for seconds and
thirds, then when he penetrates you, you are likely to go into the wave after
wave orgasm and pass out from sexual satiation like Barabarella. That is the
Holy Grail and you just claimed it. If he is that good, then you should lavish
your womanly virtues on him in full measure. He deserves it and he has earned
it! He is what you would call a very talented conversationalist.
That is to say, he is
good at using his tongue to express himself. It should take you about three
quarters of an hour. But remember, The Parthenon in Greece wasn’t built in a
day, so you might have to work at it and not be discouraged. It is a Process.
Rarely do one-night stands reach those heights of empathic felicities, and if
they do, you will be shagging each other regularly. But by and large, practice
makes perfect. In other words, sexual satisfaction and prowess is a process.
Get interested in the Process.
RULE
NUMBER FIVE:
THE PROCESS OF
ORGASM
He is going to cum
anyway, whether he wanks himself secretly in the bathroom later, or after he
wakes up, or lying beside you. The average man can get to orgasm in anything
between thirty seconds to ten minutes. The average woman is more likely to
take ten minutes to an hour to get to those dizzy heights, but as I said,
the peak you reach in sexual ecstasy is nine times higher than his, and can
be nine times nine higher.
Isn’t that a really
wonderful fact? It is a heavenly fact. It has been a secret closely guarded
for thousands of years. A coveted secret of the Goddesses for Millennia. It
is a mythological secret. But it is actually a physiological fact. It’s a
big tantric secret and we just let you in on it. It will be natural for you
to take a whole lot longer so don’t for heaven’s sake think you have to
be in a hurry. If he is on Viagra count yourself lucky because his hard on
is guaranteed regardless of whether he thinks he needs it or not. Patience.
We are all being let out of the sexual cages. This little booklet is just
helping you with the keys. It is a process. Everything is a process. Learn
your process. Let me repeat that. Learn YOUR process. I mean each woman has
her own process. All women’s processes are similar, but none are
identical. So there are no rules for the process other than the fact it is
unique to you.
This is a free
tantalizing teaser,
a small excerpt from the
Full Version
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