If you want him to
go down on you, make the dish when he gets there fragrant and sweet smelling
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If you want him to
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By the way: Make sure you don’t smell down there. Cleanliness is
next to Godliness. That is a golden rule. And use an ante bacteriological
soap if you are having a lot of sex in a short time. Make certain you are
hygienic and squeaky clean down there. No man I have ever been to bed with
ever liked a smelly pussy. There is said it. The ones who do are just
weirdos and maybe he needs that fact pointed out to him. If you want him to
go down on you, make the dish when he gets there fragrant and sweet smelling
so he wants to stay there and lap at your clitoris all night long. No
woman likes to go down on a grungy cock either. If he has lived in the last
part of the twentieth century and watches TV he may know that already. Make
sure he does something about it. Again, be sensitive about hygiene, even
his. It is all a learning experience. If you make him feel less of a man,
you have blown it before you start.
MAKE HYGIENE SEXY
No
woman can make her hygiene sexy. May as well accept that fact. Him cleaning
your vagina as a sexy way to get you clean enough for him to go down on is a
non-starter. We all know that. But washing his cock with a soapy flannel of
anti bacterial soap in the bath or shower can be a wonderful prelude to a
love making session. You may do it anyway, but if you have reservations
about his hygiene, that is the way to go. If you have been out dancing, go
that way anyway. Cleanliness before sex is very confidence building. I know
one man who is spotless about his personal hygiene, and he does it without
being over the top and crazy about it. But he goes the whole nine yards. He
showers for a long time in a hot shower, uses anti bacterial soap, washes
his hair, polishes his helmet and his anus thoroughly, and then cleans his
teeth and then uses a strong mouth wash.
When
that man gets into bed with me, I am already confident he can do anything to
and with me. He has the same confidence in me. Isn’t that nice for us. No
seriously, it may seem obvious if you are a middle class American or
European, but it isn’t obvious at all. It is something that has been
learned. Civilization has taught us the importance of cleanliness over
thousands of years, but it is still learning how important this is for
sexuality between men and women. Women seem to have to learn it from the
beginning. If we are not taught it from our parents, we may be lucky enough
to learn it from our girl friends, but it isn’t something you want to
learn about from your lover or boyfriend. Too embarrassing. He can take it
on the chin and learn it from us. Ok, now everyone’s clean….
SCORING YOUR FIRST
ORGASM-CUNNILINGUS STYLE
If you have got him to
want the ice cream down in the forest of desire, and got him to like lapping
at your clitoris with his tongue then the aim should be to get him to really
enjoy it. Think of yourself as the dinner you didn’t cook him and made a
meal of yourself. The two eating concepts are so intimately connected you
wouldn’t believe it. Instead of eating steak and chips he is eating you
with even more relish. The juices that flow out of you onto his tongue and
into his mouth also represent an exchange of vital energies. Those vital
energies can be really sexually heightening. They are also healing, but that
is another story. You want to score your first and even your second orgasm
before he penetrates you. If you can gyrate your pelvis gently and respond
to him with the natural "ooos" and "aaas" coming out of
you or should be coming out of you if you are really enjoying yourself (some
men don’t like screamers! So watch the screaming!)
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