Imagine being a woman who can honestly say she
is truly brimming with sexual satisfaction ...
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If your lover needs
Viagra, never make him feel ashamed of that fact. But if he is a smoker and
a drinker, then help him get off those nasty habits and he will be an even
better lover. We are promoting sensitivity, health and sexual awareness
between men and women as the path to better lovemaking. If viagra is a
needed bridge, then it’s a blessing. Treat it as such. It can bring sex
alive again for people who were damned to impotence. That is happiness for
millions of people to whom it had been denied. A win - win scenario for men
and women both!
RULE NUMBER THREE:
Take Responsibility for your Sex Life - get sexual satisfaction!
Be Conscious and Willing.
The standard get out after a one-night stand is to say that you don't
remember anything. He might need that excuse and so might you. But the truth
is we all remember everything really. I have to labor this point because if
you get this right, you are going to be rewarded in bed night after night
for a very long time to come. And that is the name of the game. Sexual
satisfaction. Let’s put satisfaction in big letters. SATISFACTION. It is a
big word. Think about it. How satisfied have you been? Answer truthfully.
Sometimes? Maybe never? Imagine being a woman who can honestly say she
is truly brimming with sexual satisfaction, SATISFACTION? The woman who can
say that and mean it is probably happy. It is a fact of life that a loved
woman looks more radiant. A woman getting “loved” (having a lot of sex)
tends to look happier with herself.
So is her partner and
probably well on the road to success in other departments of life too. All
these tips are designed to liberate you so that you can get SATISFACTION.
But not at his expense. That doesn’t work. It must be with him. A truly
two-way thing, a cooperative effort. The flashy word for this sexual
mutualism is dyadic. Dyadic just means TWO PEOPLE. A relationship. We may as
well accept that at the outset and take responsibility for the sex we want
because if we do, we are much more likely to get what we want out of the
encounter. If he doesn't know that, you definitely should. He might thank
you for that later, and he may come back for second helpings again and
again. If he doesn’t know, teach it to him, but not with words, but by
example, gesture, suggestion. The bludgeon of dissatisfied feminism
hasn’t made men or women better lovers or more tolerant. Intelligence is
needed. If it doesn’t work, change it. Change the approach.
Criticism, nastiness, they all serve to alienate men and women from each
other. Sensitivity, kindness, tolerance work much better and everybody will
win in bed and beyond. Intelligent.
SELF ESTEEM - Where’s Your’s?
The roots of sexual
repression are a loss of self-esteem. Self Esteem can be lost through loss
of Satisfaction or not getting what you want out of life, in bed and out of
it. You can start by getting what you want in bed and the rest will follow.
The only way to get your self-esteem back in bed is to get it back. Take
responsibility for your sexual life and mean to have a good time- together.
Unless he is really insensitive, he will sense that you care about it and it
might make him care about how you feel too. Think of it this way, if you
don't care about him in a very conscious deliberate way, he is more likely
to use you as a machine for masturbating than not. We all know what that
feels like. Those of us who don't are either not paying proper attention, or
we are just plain lucky.
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