We women on the other
hand are wired the opposite way, to get and hold onto our man, and make him
faithful ...
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WHAT
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW
We women on the other
hand are wired the opposite way, to get and hold onto our man, and make him
faithful. He wants all women to be one woman. We want to be the woman that
is all women to him. It's psychology! Shall I say that more simply? Its
important we really understand this point as it will make his behavior
completely understandable. It has to do with evolution. If he didn't want to
stick his penis in everything in a skirt, and we didn't want to stop him,
making him faithful to just one woman, there would be no dynamic tension
between the sexes and there would be no flirtation, and there wouldn't be
this endless fascination we seem to have for each other. And don't forget
ladies, to a man, we are an eternal mystery. It isn't true what that beastly
Jack Nicholson said: “you remember the flick, As Good as It Gets.” Jack
plays an author who always writes, he thinks from a woman's
perspective.
One of his biggest
fans catches him one day in the publisher’s office and asks him straight
out how he understands the psychology of women so well. He replies with that
dismissive cynicism that only Mr. Nicholson can get away with and still live
to tell the tale that its easy. All women think and behave the same as men,
but to be a woman you just remove accountability! Beast! Men are just as
irresponsible as women, and even more selfish in bed.
It is practically a
cliché of sexual conversation that men always get to cum and we women
always get a quarter of the way there before he has shot his load and burned
out, switched off turned his back and told us to go to sleep. How's that for
non-accountability?
There isn't a woman in
the world who doesn't feel a surge of power and pride over a man when we can
make him orgasm. He doesn't know that it turns us on. A quick test to prove
that point is simple. Ever tried and tried to get your man to cum and
failed. Remember how that feels? Or feel somehow inadequate? It goes to the
core of what makes us women. Our mystery, our allure seems to be only
vindicated in the power we have not only to get him to want us, to woo us,
to captivate us and to bed us, and then its up to us to finish him off and
make him cum. If we can't do that, its like we have failed him. Isn't that
right?
We might lie to
ourselves and to him and pretend we don't care, but we do, really. He may
feel there is something wrong, not with him, but with us, if he fails to get
the final ejaculation. That puts us under a certain amount of pressure. So
here are some hot tips and suggestions for making that conversation more
interesting, and more successful, not just in getting him to the peak
experience, but in getting us women there with him. He won't feel anything
like the same guilt if we don't climax. It just seems an odd fact of life
that we have to get him there though in order to feel defined as a woman.
Its part of the Venus Effect to keep him interested. If we succeed he may
come back for more and that we may well be interested in, especially if we
want to marry him.
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