Making good sexual conversation is an art form
we women can still teach our men something about.
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The
art of sexual conversation
Sex is like good
conversation: Every woman knows that we are better liars than men will ever
be. There are men around who still think that we don't know what our clitoris
is for and there ARE even some really gullible men who think we don't
masturbate. We pride ourselves on being able to turn the tables on our male
companions- especially in bed. Making good sexual conversation is an art form
we women can still teach our men something about. It maybe a mistake to assume
that men know what a woman really needs in bed, and an even bigger mistake to
think that we know all the answers ourselves. This booklet is hard talk for
women from a woman who knows some of the inside stories on being a woman in
today’s world. And how to get the most out of some situations that sometimes
don’t go as they should.
WHO
IS IN CONTROL IN BED?
Sure,
we can let them think they are in control in bed, but as every woman knows,
if we let them take the lead it will all be over in five minutes. His lust
is satiated all too quickly and that is the bane of every girl’s love life
let alone after sex conversation. Let the dialogue begin. The truth is:
neither. Or both. We shouldn’t be in control in bed. If we are and it’s
all too obvious to him, he won’t be as good as he could be. More about
that later.
Here are some hot tips
for women who want to bring the level of sexual conversation to a level
where true satisfaction can be found. To do that we have to be clear about
what men want from us in bed. They want to ejaculate! It is that simple. If
they don't make it to a climax then for him it’s a failure. Every woman
knows that-don't they?
The
trick is to get him to cum at the same time or after we reach orgasm. That is
the Holy Grail for us…synchronizing our orgasm with our partners, so we get
as much out of the dialogue as him. Many women take out insurance on their
orgasm. At the outset of a love making session, they are on top first and
bring themselves to a climax quickly, using their finger while your lover is
inside. Once you have got that over with, you roll over, let him climb into
the saddle and pump away until he cums. That way you both get something out of
it. It is a selfish way of doing things. It’s a bit cynical. But we all
admit that it is an answer. But not the best answer. The best answer takes
more thought and more practice. The quick one off, one-night-stand can work
like that, but no good if you want repeats with the same partner. And no good
if you want the big relationship. Or marriage. For that, you have to be a bit
better. This booklet is about being just that bit better in bed.
WHAT
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MEN
So
after the mating ritual is initiated and there is a chance of getting into
bed with your man you have to remember a couple of things at the outset. Men
are hard wired to spread their semen among as many women as possible, and
his sexual prowess is driven to multiple sexual partners. For him, the man
in your life, whatever he may say, will always find the allure of another
woman always a possibility. His penis can be the stronger intellectual
force. I know that sounds like a contradiction of terms. Are penises
intellectual? Not likely! A man’s penis doesn’t think, you say. Think
again. A man’s penis does all the thinking, most of the time where we
women are concerned. He wants his penis up as many women as he can get
it.
This is a free
tantalizing teaser,
a small excerpt from the Full Version
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